For those of you who know me

For those who know me, you know I’m passionate about a few powerful things: supporting people of color, advocating for women, and speaking up for those who can’t always speak for themselves—especially within the Autistic community.

With two adult sons on the spectrum, advocating for them isn’t just something I do in April—it’s a 24/7, 365-day commitment. Autism isn’t a moment; it’s a movement in my life. I need a dentist who understands, an eye doctor who listens, and a community that shows up. I need a village—not just for my sons, but so I can help open doors for others walking similar paths.

Don’t pity them. And don’t pity me. My sons are brilliant, resilient, and extraordinary—despite the daily battles they face. I am their voice when the world isn’t listening, and my love for them will carry them through as long as I breathe. Period.

April is Autism Awareness Month—but for us, every day is a chance to celebrate, advocate, and educate. While this month shines a global spotlight on autism, our journey started long before and will continue long after. I wrote this for the masses, because the message matters.

If you’re connected to the autism community—or even if you’re not—you might know that April is often referred to as World Autism Month. It began with the Autism Society of America’s first National Autistic Children’s Week in 1972, and the United Nations officially recognized April 2 as World Autism Awareness Day.

Autism spectrum disorder is a lifelong neurological and developmental disability. Its prevalence has increased significantly over the past few decades—now affecting approximately 1 in 44 children. Boys are four times more likely than girls to be diagnosed.

Here are just a few key facts:

• Around 5.4 million people in the U.S. are autistic.

• 1 in 54 American children is on the spectrum.

• 40% of autistic individuals experience increased anxiety.

• 13% have a sleep disorder.

• 7% of children born prematurely are diagnosed with autism.

• 61% of autistic children have little to no functional speech.

In many homes—including mine—this month is a big deal. Buildings and landmarks glow blue in support of Autism Speaks’ Light It Up Blue campaign. Awareness spreads through donations, social media, community events, and conversations that matter.

But lately, I’ve been inspired to go beyond awareness—to action, acceptance, and empowerment.

I wrote a book for my oldest son titled Autism and Beyond: A Mother’s Journey of Hope, and it became a bestseller. This year, I had it translated into Spanish. My dream is to release it in a new language every year—so that mothers everywhere can know that hope exists beyond the daily struggles. This isn’t about money. Trust me, I’m not profiting. It’s about purpose.

I have a big heart. I have a voice. And I’m going to keep using it.

Thank you for loving, supporting, and believing in my boys.